How to Help Someone Retire - from Driving
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Most drivers can assess their driving abilities and make adjustments as necessary. However, some fail to recognize the warning signs or worry about losing their independence. Still others, with conditions like dementia or Alzheimer's disease, may be unable to evaluate their skills.

AARP offers the following steps to help you determine if someone needs to retire from driving (or make a few adjustments).

Step 1: Assess the situation. It may be helpful to ride with the person and observe their driving habits. Review the warning signs.

Step 2: Have conversations about driving with the driver. Talk to them early and often. Be sincere and point out observations.

Step 3: Suggest various options, depending on the impairment. One size does not fit all. You may suggest they:

  • Take a classroom refresher course.
  • Order the AARP Driver Assessment Guide, "Older Driver Skill Assessment and Resource Guide: Creating Mobility Choices" by writing to AARP (AARP Fulfillment, P.O. Box 96796, Washington, DC 20090-6796). Specify Stock #D14957 when ordering. Allow 4 to 6 weeks for delivery.
  • Seek additional information from Web sites about behind-the-wheel assessment, counseling from private or public sources, remedial training and/or adaptive equipment.
  • Limit driving to certain times of day or familiar areas.
  • Begin using other methods of transportation, such as rides from family/friends, public transportation, paratransit services, taxis or other public or private transportation options. (Accompany the person during initial trials of alternate forms of transportation.)
  • Contact local motor vehicle office for programs to evaluate driving skills or to receive special licensing alternatives.

Step 4: Seek additional help if necessary. If the person is not taking proper action and the impairment is obvious, you might need to involve the driver's doctor.

For more information on driver safety and to find an AARP Driver Safety course near you, visit AARP's Web site